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  • "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." Mother Teresa
  • "It's really not a bad tree, maybe it just needs a little love..." -Charlie Brown
  • "A true champion is someone who wants to make a difference, who never gives up, and who gives everything she has no matter what the circumstances are. A true champion works hard and never loses sight of her dreams." Dot Richardson
  • Dorothy: "Oh, will you help me? Can you help me?".... Glinda: "You don't need to be helped any longer, you've always had the power to go back to Kansas!"..... Dorothy: "I have?"....... Scarecrow: "Then why didn't you tell her before?"........ Glinda: "Because she wouldn't have believed me. She had to learn it for herself"
  • "I will keep going, keep fighting, keep on this path no matter how harsh the conditions, no matter how cruel the critics, no matter how confused the onlookers, no matter how steep the trail, no matter how gray the sky, no matter how what direction others are going...I will keep going this way that God has sent me on this path that God has put me on, I will keep joyfully going until He gives me my very last breath." -M. Jighetti

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  • I read every single response on this blog...sometimes I only have a few seconds and I don't get a chance to respond. I just want you to know how much I appreciate the time you take to share pieces of yourself....you never know who will be deeply affected by your words....I know I have been. Please keep coming back and please keep posting!
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October 2007 entries

October 30, 2007

My Little Blogging Break....

WOW.
Life is crazy right now! So many things going on...I wanted to share a few things that have absolutely inspired me over the last week....first is this blog post from Brenda at THIS blog

I wish I could take credit for this beautiful piece of writing....because when I read it, I couldn't believe how THESE WORDS were so much what I am feeling these days......and I know so many others are too....enjoy this...I will be back soon....with lots of great news!

Saturday, October 27, 2007

YOU SAY YOU WANT A REVOLUTION
Words fall on me. They fall all around me. Sometimes they crash, sometimes they careen or they float or dance by on invisible currents of air. Sometimes they attach themselves to me like static cling. They splatter on the sidewalk in front of me before I step in them and track them with me, knowingly or unknowingly. Sometimes they come out of the mouth of someone I know or don’t know. Often words come to me in meditation, softly whispered or emphatically stated. I know that these are words to pay attention to. Words come to me in lyrics and on signs—road signs, store signs, billboards, marquees. Sometimes they tumble from the page right into my lap, taking different shapes, different attitudes: Times New Roman, Rockwell, Modern No. 20. Words fall all around me. All day. Every day. Sometimes they land softly, and sometimes they form a crater of impact.

A particular and peculiar word landed on me a couple weeks ago. I can’t even say how or when it first nudged me, because I have a feeling I brushed it off several times before the repetition caught my attention. Sometimes my reception gets blocked or dulled and only the persistent words get through. What I can say is that this word has surfaced so many times in the past weeks, in different contexts, through different media. I’ve heard it recently in music, in magazines, consumer catalogs, in interviews, and on television—this word is suddenly landing all around me, everywhere I go.

So here it is: revolution.

As in: You say you want a revolution. American Revolution. Glorious Revolution. Cultural Revolution. She’s talking about a revolution. It’s a powerful word in our lexicon of change.

Words are instruments—instruments we can use to gauge or measure the internal and external forces that are at play in our lives or in our world. When we find a word we like the sound of (or when it finds us), it strikes a chord that reverberates—it imposes, it repeats, it appeals because it expresses a truth. That’s what I’m hearing with revolution—the repetition of the word, and the reverberation of the underlying forces behind it. It rings of the true-ness of what we need, what we feel, what we want for ourselves or for others—if not what we want to materialize, then at least what we want to think about. So I’ve found myself thinking about revolution.

I recognize lately that so many people seem to be in various states of unrest—unrested, restless. I suppose this diquietude might evidence the first rustlings of revolution. Something rubs wrong. The old order doesn’t ring as true as it used to. From restlessness grows a desire for change, a yearning for it. Maybe that desire goes unchecked for years or decades—ferments, agitates, grows subversive. Then what? Revolution can only gain momentum or find success through organization, a plan of action that powers movement, enables change. Revolution. There’s something about that word that seduces; it sounds good—a veiled promise, a hope, a possibility.

Historically, and on a grand scale, revolution has decried political systems, war, oppression of civil and human rights, but the kind of revolution I’m talking about is not so epic. I’m talking about a personal revolution. I’m talking about the unrest of the soul, the restlessness at the core of our self. I’m talking about a sincere and escalating desire for change in our heart and our life. I’m talking about a radical movement towards a renewed hope.

I’m talking about a revolution. Yours. Mine.

Our march against the old order might take us to a new job, a different continent, a more disciplined form of prayer or exercise or time management, a renewed relationship with a friend or sibling or God, a heightened sense of peace, or the realization of our heart’s desire. Most of us who are in a state of unrest are waiting for something to happen. We watch. We wait. We hope—but we try not to hope too much at the risk of being disappointed. So we wait. What we don’t realize is that we are the ones who have to lead the uprising. No one else will. We have to respond to our own desire for change, devise the plan of action that will power the movement; we have to sustain the momentum. We have to be the one to rise up in our own life. That new order, with all its promises of hope and possibility, is not only within our reach, it is of our own making.

By Brenda Pettinger
brendabird.blogspot.com


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October 24, 2007

Just want you to know...

I love you guys....thanks for all of the incredible advice...I'll be back in just a bit....have some really incredible, exciting and wonderful things going on that are taking tons of time......(even the teenagers have their incredible, exciting and wonderful moments...) anyway.....I keep reading all of this advice and some of it has even brought tears to my eyes that you would take the time to share this stuff....very helpful and very encouraging and mostly just makes me know that this is not a unique situation and we will all live through it.....

Hopefully I'll be back tonight to post some more...things are great. Can't wait to share...
much love
melody

October 20, 2007

Need Your Best Advice....

...on how to handle teenagers...

IF YOU'VE MOTHERED ONE...what are your best words of advice?
IF YOU REMEMBER BEING ONE....what are your best words of advice?

I will be doing a real post tomorrow...but for now....HEEEELLLLPPPP!!!!!!!!

...any and all help would be greatly appreciated!
:)
Much Love
MelodyTeenager_cartoon

October 15, 2007

I would love to meet you....

Hello!
If you are in the area in early November, I would love to spend the morning or afternoon with you....I will tell you how in a minute...I am doing a great even with my sister in law....it's going to be so fun and I can't wait to connect with people.....

.....because it's been a LOOONG time since I've really done that...

...and just this week I have been thinking about that so much....for lots of different reasons. Last week I was talking with Carrie about life, and all of the different experiences we've had...and how it all boiled down to relationships....and she repeated what her mom told her a long time ago....I copied and pasted it here because it is so important to always remember....
"It's not all of the things and accomplishments and status that matters in life. Its the people. The millions and millions of people that you meet and remember. That's the fun in life...the people."
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Anyway, I had a great weekend full of people. I had so much to do....on the final stretch of moving everything from the farm...made a few phonecalls and within an hour our farm was buzzing with friends and their children....hugging and laughing and the kids running around everywhere...and lots of helping and finding new homes for stuff we don't need anymore......and I just feel so profoundly blessed by people...

.....then yesterday going back to our old church, and seeing everyone again....and again, all of the hugs and friendship and happiness....and how those friendships are solid and it doesn't matter that I live an hour away...there's just so much love there....IT'S THE PEOPLE.

...and I have to say that I feel a connection and a kinship with people on this blog...and on other blogs...I have made wonderful friendships through this blog...and 'strangers' have sent me messages at just the right time....just the right words.....because I know for sure that God uses all of us to connect with each other to answer the prayers that we all pray......

....I hope you never under-estimate the power of connection....of a smile to someone...of a hug or a phonecall or an email or a note in the mail....or the few minutes it would take to rekindle a fond old memory with someone....or an "I BELIEVE IN YOU" or a "YOU CAN DO IT" or a "YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY FRIEND, NO MATTER WHAT...." Kindness_is
....last night we ate a big pot of homemade red potato soup that my mom brought over....just because....with a loaf of fresh zuchinni bread....and Marq's mom sent over a cake...why? I don't know...just out of kindness and love and wanting to make a connection.....I guess that got me thinking about how hearts can just warm up and open up and when you make an effort to do what you might think is a very small act of kindness....that it can make all the difference in the world...I know it does to me.

So...I guess I just wanted to say thank you...and also to just give a little reminder of stuff that you already know...but that gets tossed all around when life gets busy and crazy and overwhelming....I am going to make an extra effort to reach out and connect with friends and with strangers....to extend more small and large kindnesses.....to breathe in the friendships and connections and kindnesses of others more carefully and thoughfully and thankfully....

I really would love to meet you...it would be so fun to hang out with you and make a project and it's also for a really great cause....you'll leave with something that you'll cherish for the rest of your life...a completed Holiday album and lots of wonderful new connections and friendships.....PLEASE COME IF YOU CAN!!!
Lots of Love
melody

read all of the details HERE and register quick because I would love to see you!
FundraisingbannersmallOn November 10, 2007, there will be a scrapbooking event like no other. This is one you don't want to miss. Melody Ross, founder of Chatterbox Inc., will be sharing her insight and creativity here in Boise for a 4-hour event. This event is a fundraiser for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. All proceeds will go directly to the society for research and to benefit the individuals and families afflicted with these deadly blood cancers.

Melody's sister in law, Holly Johnson, is raising funds in memory of her Aunt Laura who passed suddenly and unexpectedly from Leukemia. She is working with "Team in Training" through the society to run a half marathon and raise fund for this very worthy cause.

With your donation of $75.00 to the society, you will have the amazing opportunity to scrap a full 8x8 Christmas Album with Melody, among other fun projects. All scrapping supplies (which will be Chatterbox products, of course) are free with your donation.

There will be two 4-hour sessions, one in the morning and one in the late afternoon. Each session will hold 25 scrappers. Registration will be on a first-come, first-served basis. Event schedule and location will be given at registration.
Online registration begins at 8:00 AM MST on October 15, 2007, at www.hollydoodle.com/charityscrap Seats are sure to fill up fast, so be ready!

Scrapping with Melody for a great cause. It's a win - win situation for all! Join our team and help us cross the ultimate finish line - a cure!
To receive more information about this cause please visit www.teamintraining.org To read about Holly and her Aunt Laura please visit www.active.com/donate/tntidmo/HollyJohnson

Laura

October 12, 2007

Super Fun ART SLAM challenge...

Hi Everyone!
I did an art journal challenge called ART SLAM for my friend and fellow artist, Lucrecer's blog....you can see her incredible, wonderful, inspiring blog BY CLICKING ON THESE WORDS HERE...then scroll up to see the project.....

and...there is the challenge that I did...IT IS SO MUCH FUN!!! I LOVE BEING AN ARTIST!!!!......hope you are finding the artist inside of you every day!
lots of love
melody

EDITED....***I took the art slam challenge off because it's taking so long to download...you can see it on the link above that says HERE...you need to check out Lu's blog anyway! :) You'll love it and you'll love her!
...melody

October 07, 2007

My Studio...Phase Two!!

Melody_ross_studio_2_2 Well friends and fellow creative souls, I promised I would get my studio update up this weekend……the weekend was a little crazier than I had planned….but I am here to show you where I am at! I still have a lot to do…there are no chairs, though I have 3 really cool ones that I bought at a thrift store years ago…they need to be painted and reupholstered…so, hopefully I can get working on that soon….all of this project I have to do after working all week….but it is fun…just going slower than I want it to! There’s some cool stuff I want to explain…first…you can see that I have painted a whole bunch of stuff black, but that some of it still needs to be painted…some I am going to paint cream and then antique the cream paint….Malary and I spent all Saturday night winding all of my ribbon scraps around clothespins and putting them in the fruit basket…I love this…they are the clippy ones so the ends can be held (I saw this idea on someone’s blog…not my idea, but I love it) The thingy that my purse and jacket is hanging on is from the days when I used to design and sell jewelry at farmer’s markets and art shows with my friend Sabrina…it’s an old frame with beadboard in it…then there’s a few of my antique doorknobs screwed into it…it’s been in my barn for years and I’m so glad I got to put it to use….under that is the old dresser that used to be mine when I was growing up…it used to be golden yellow…but I painted it black and it holds all of my big tools..hammers, big stapler, drill…and all of my antique hardware and there’s a WHOLE drawer full of decorative edge scissors from many moons ago…next you’ll see that I have a rather large and unused collection of candlesticks…I also found a lot of trays and boxes…I decided to use some industrial adhesive and glue the trays and other things (like an antique hinged box that I found, perfect for pencils and pens…and it was already black!) so I glued that stuff to the candlesticks and now these things are all on a pedestal and it preserves counter space…but mostly it just looks cool…I still need to paint the red ones….and you can see how much they have been used because one still has the price tag on it….I don’t know what I thought I was ever going to do with all of the stuff I have found while moving….like this REALLY cool old green chest of drawers that used to hold typesetting tools…I bought it years ago to put all of my beads in…never got around to it…but my daughters and their friends have been helping me sort all of our beads and categorize them, put them in little zip-lock bags and put them into the drawers….it is so wonderful to have it all organized….then there’s the black cabinets that Marq built for our office years ago….that have just been sitting around with all of the other garage stuff…..and they hold so much stuff! SO GREAT! …and that old antique trunk that Marq’s parents gave me for Christmas years ago…full of my journals and photos….I love that it fits in here…the big square baskets hold kajillions of paper punches from the paper punch days…and my kids love to use them now…and a paper crimper…remember those? And there’s the lidded boxes with glitters and stamps and inks….and the newly black wire shelf is holding all of my paint supplies…brushes, palettes and paint (acrylic and watercolor…) …and I am working on a little book called “She Did It Anyway” …and one of the pages says….”SHE KEPT FLYING ANYWAY..IN FACT, IT MADE HER SOAR….and my SIL made this vinyl for me of a little bird that I drew with those words trailing behind her….I love seeing that on my wall! I am still working on the wall stuff…there will soon be 2 big bulletin boards and a big magnetic board…the big huge frame will be a ceiling tile covered with the toile fabric that I showed you earlier…then put into the frame….so many more projects to do…but you can see that I am getting close!!! I turn 36 on the 19th….so, maybe it will be done by then? Well…we shall see…a little bit every day! Hope you enjoyed…..it has been fun to get creative with what I have…I have enjoyed it so much! Have a wonderful week…I’ll be back really soon!
Lots of Love
Melody

I'm Overwhelmed by You....

Well, first off….I want to say WOW and THANKS…..and THANKS AGAIN and WOW AGAIN for all of the replies I got on how you found my blog. I thought it might take a few days to get to 100….but it was less than a day…so thanks….so much….and ESPECIALLY…thanks for all of the kind things that so many of you said. It means more than you will ever know…the last few days have been stressful and kind of rough…and your words just totally kept me going…so thank you, so much.

So…the little prizes, which I am totally excited about…will go out really soon. You will be getting an email if you were one of those numbers, then I’ll be sending you a nice little present in the mail. Thanks to EVERYONE though. I needed that info….and I think I needed the words you wrote even more, though I sure wasn’t expecting such a shower of kindness…thank you so much. Especially thanks for the way you recommitted me to so many things that I want to do with my life……..I am working on several writing projects…I am always always writing…always creating.

…but…I’ll keep you updated. There’s lots of changes and transitions going on right now, so I’ll let you know about exciting things when I can….

Ok…that’s all for that…just KNOW that your kind words were timely and will always be so so so special to me. Thank you.
Lots of Love
Melody

October 04, 2007

How Did You Find My Blog?

Hello!
Would you do me a HUUUUUUGE favor and let me know how you found my blog? I am constantly shocked at the growth in readership in the thousands and would love to know how it is that you and I found each other....

You can post anonymously but I am going to choose some random prizes if you want to post your email so I can send you something....I really need this info...so I would REALLY appreciate your help!!!

Thanks so much...

Prizes will go to POSTS #1, #7, #11, #17, #22, #34, #55, #60, #77 & #100 if we get there!
thanks a bundle!
melody

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That link down there won't work....so here it is again...

http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=7201292

Questions Answered & Some Beautiful Things....

First, I have a few questions to answer…

About my boots…I simply painted them with acrylic paint mixed with acrylic glaze…easy to come by…available at any craft store. I am still totally in love with these boots…and I think I always will be…I recommend expressing yourself this way to anyone…here’s the back of the other boot with my new life theme….DO IT ANYWAY….
Melody_ross_other_bootAnother question about my career and where I’m headed (thank you for asking, by the way…I can’t wait to get OUT THERE again and share and connect)…..I am loving designing at Chatterbox…and I will be making some big announcements pretty soon about what’s next…..

One little thing I can tell you is that I am opening up an Etsy shop really soon….with stuff that I will be making with my very artistic children in the evenings and on weekends….hopefully in time for some Christmas shopping…..
My_etsy_favoritesOk…so….Don’t these photos make you totally happy!?!?
I am going to apologize in advance for what I am about to do to you…if it has not already been done…..I am going to link you to A FEW of my favorite things on Etsy.com….the warning is that you will get addicted, as soon as you start looking around at everything available by incredible artists all over the world…..

I am ALL ABOUT supporting independent artists, though….so, here you go…..

The cutest Little bluebird I have ever seen!
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=7241736

cool felted purse – I love this so much!
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=7199707

LillaLu Paper Arts – by an incredible artist whom I absolutely adore!
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=7268189

Nightmare snatcher journals – Oh my gosh, after I have saved up…I am SO going to pick up a couple of these….they make me smile every time I look at them….
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=7201292

These gorgeous handmade vases and pots by a local artist who lives across the valley from me…she also has an incredible blog…and I found her because she posted here on my blog! (I love this very small virtual world!)
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=7298606

And that really cool painting by Scott Garrette that you can own for a cool $1000, but he has lots of affordable prints, too….
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=5901997

Ok, have a beautiful day!
I’ll be posting photos of my ABSOLUTELY DREAMY STUDIO this weekend…it’s not QUITE done yet, but OH SO CLOSE!

Lots of Love
Melody